Thursday, July 4, 2019

Are we truly free?


Are We Truly Free?

On this evening that we celebrate American “independence,” I must ask:

Are we truly free?

When our ancestors threw crates of tea into the Boston harbor, they were fighting against a corporate monopoly that was controlling the prices of basic commodities, making them unaffordable to the masses.  Does this sound familiar?  It should.  We are there again, except this time there are many monopolies and a government controlled by corporate puppets that is used to control us.

Yes we fought the British government, but they were the enforcers for the corporation which shared profits with the crown to get that protection.  Now we have allowed a disguised conservative movement to create a pay-to-play system in Washington that allows big corporations and billionaires to do whatever they want and shift the vast majority of wealth to a handful of greedy people.  We now have a completely immoral billionaire at the helm removing every protection that was put in place for the benefit of the people over the last 50+ years!

We have mini monopolies controlling our media access because they paid our government to divide up territories between them rather than creating a competitive system.  We have a small number of communication options in an industry that conspires to keep prices where they want them.  We have a government that agreed to pay for drugs without negotiating prices and now investment firms are buying big pharma companies and raising prices as much as 5,000%!  The problem is that we are the taxpayers paying the taxes that go towards paying those unfair prices.

If I am not mistaken, we are supposed to have a government for the people by the people.  What we really have is a government for the corporations by the corporate lobbyists.  Are we really supposed to agree that the economy is good when the rich keep getting richer, and after 40 years of wage stagnation, we see a 3% wage increase occasionally?  Before 1980 wages grew for all sectors of society equally.  Education was free to anyone who worked hard in school.  An entrepreneur could start a business without giving away majority stake to a rich person because “savings and loan” banks actually gave out affordable small business loans.  Now we are supposed to feel good about small wage increases, carrying huge debts if we get a college degree and a system where if we are successful at building a new business, we will see a big business take it from us and be lucky to walk away with anything!

When the country was founded, there were not states that had massively more population than others so 2 senators for each state may have made sense.  Now the Republicans have succeeded in getting voters in a bunch of small states to vote against their own interests through fear mongering and lies.   This has allowed them to control the senate with the backing of only 14% of the population!!!  That is not majority rule; far from it!  Mitch McConnell now gloats about stopping the majority from seating supreme court justices and passing legislation that actually helps the people.  They make voting as hard as they can because they know that they will lose every time the majority comes out to vote.  A huge portion of voters don’t even bother to vote because their lives are now so involved that they don’t feel that they have time for politics.  THIS IS BY DESIGN.  Low voter turnout allows minority rule.  We have lost our country, and we have allowed it to happen by accepting lives too full of distractions to give a shit about what the ruling class is doing to us.

We now live in a world where money equals freedom and a handful of ruling class billionaires have more money than the bottom half of the population!  3 people having more than 150 million is not a system of equality, justice and freedom for all.  The rich routinely get privileges throughout their lives from being first in line at everything from restaurants to theme parks to concerts. They buy justice, and even when they go to prison, they get time in “country clubs” not time in the general prison population.  They enjoy an obscene level of freedom to do whatever they want while most of us slave away day in and day out, and have to feel blessed when we get a few days at the beach or actually get the healthcare we need.  This is not freedom for all.  It is wage slavery.

What history teaches us is that we can take freedom back when we work together.  This is why Fox news trains its viewers that liberals are the enemy.  By creating a fictional enemy, their viewers cannot see the real enemy.  If we cannot rationally talk about issues and find common ground, we end up fighting in a divided nation that is easily controlled.  It has gone on so long that we cannot get most right wing voters to help us, but we can talk to independents and work with them and teach young people the error of our ways going forward.  We can train a new generation of activists to take to the streets and help us to restore freedom and a government for the people by the people.

This won’t happen on its own.  It is time for us to take responsibility for our world before those who profit from destroying it succeed in doing so.  Please find ways to teach and take every opportunity to take to the streets and make this freedom movement to big and obvious to ignore or fail! 

We are not truly free, but we can be!

by David Stein 7/4/2019

Friday, February 24, 2012

Are You a Follower or a Thinker? - Part One: You Are What You Eat!

"I know of nothing else in medicine that can come close to what a plant-based diet can do. In theory, if everyone were to adopt this, I really believe we can cut health care costs by seventy to eighty percent. That's amazing. And it all comes from understanding nutrition, applying nutrition, and just watching the results." - T. Colin Campbell, PhD

When you get hungry, do you think about what would taste good to you or what your body needs?  Is your body asking for flavor or nutrition?  Most people spend lots of time and money on exercise, clothes, toiletries and cosmetics to make themselves look good, but they completely ignore what they put into their bodies and how it detracts from how they look and feel!  Does that make sense?  Should socially trained flavor preferences be more important than how we look and feel, how long we live, and the quality of life we experience? 

I have discussed this with many people including myself over the years, and I have made many changes during that time including focusing on vegetables, but I really didn't get the entire picture until recently.  The most important thing is dietary focus, where most of your nutrition is coming from.  For most Americans it's meat, dairy, sugar, wheat and corn and most of it is heavily processed.  This food will make you sick in many ways short term and long term.  It lacks the nutritional value that gives your body what it needs to stay healthy and look good.

When you eat junk food, it takes as much as 4 times the calories to fill you up as eating a big salad, and you can still feel hungry after filling up because the food is lacking in nutritional value so your body still signals that it wants more food.  Does it make sense to eat calories without nutrition if the main purpose of eating is to give your body what it needs to function correctly?

The psychology of eating poorly is simple.  Most processed foods are full of salt, sugar and fat which have addictive properties that override the fear that the food will make you sick because they cause the release of chemicals in your brain called endorphins that reduce pain and create a feeling of well being.  The damage done by these foods happens slowly over a very long time so it doesn’t create a sense of immediate threat.  Most people don’t even think about the connection to immediate symptoms either because they have been trained to pop a pill for every symptom, not to question if the symptom can be avoided.  When you get heartburn or bloating, do you reach for a pill?  Do you ever consider that what you just ate might not be good for you?  Do you ever think about the implications towards long term illness?

From birth, we are trained to like the foods that are consumed by our families and societies. We often develop preferences for foods that we may not start out liking just because we eat them frequently.  One of the interesting things about changing ones diet is that foods you thought tasted good end up tasting awful after you detox by stopping eating them for an extended period of time.  I used to enjoy soda, candy and cakes like most people.  Now overly sweet foods taste toxic to me which is how our bodies naturally react to poisonous foods.  There is now a ton of science showing how more than a small amount of sugar per day is toxic and causes diseases like diabetes and suppresses your immune system preventing your body from being able to fight bad bacteria and other diseases.

We also eat the way we do because of social norms.  People want to feel like they are part of the group so when the group eats unhealthy foods, they join in.  It takes a strong will to completely change ones diet and most people find it even harder when their family and friends don't want to change.  It's a lot easier to avoid bad foods when they aren't staring at you every time you open the fridge.  Another good example of the difficulty of change is when you are not eating sugar and every restaurant has many sugar filled drinks including alcohol, but very little without sugar, sometimes only water, it makes the choice one requiring great resolve when you are used to flavored drinks. 

Another reason we eat the way we do is a combination of national policies, economic incentive, our medical establishment  and incessant marketing campaigns that make us reflexively think of the foods they want us to buy.  Did you know that for over a century, our government’s main focus for dietary recommendations have come from pressure by food industry lobbies and the reason bad foods are cheap is because of government subsidies paid for by taxpayers at the behest of food lobbies? 


When we were hunter gatherers, our main food source was plants which was occasionally supplemented with meat.  Cows milk was not part of our diet in nature, it was for calves.  However, our national focus is on meat and dairy because those industries have leverage over Washington.  Our digestive systems function at their peaks when eating alkaline based plant foods.  Meat, dairy, sugar, wheat, corn and coffee, which make up the majority of our modern diet, are all acidic foods in relation to our body PH (see alkaline foods link below).  Our bodies are not designed to produce the quantity of acid or digestive enzymes necessary to digest large amounts of these foods so the body malfunctions when forced to do so.  Immediate effects can include heartburn, bloating, lethargy, etc.

Some doctors believe dairy actually harms your bones through this blood acidosis reaction and we know that pollutants are concentrated in milk products because of the food chain, but we are told that “milk does a body good” because it is very profitable for a lot of people.  One study showed a possible correlation between the protein found in dairy and increased growth of cancerous tumors.  When animals were fed 20% dairy protein, Casein, their tumors grew, but they reversed when casein was reduced to no more than 5%.  The average American eats close to 2 pounds of dairy daily according to the national dairy council.  That's way too much if you want to be healthy!  The cost of dairy is too high when it is a focus of your diet.


One of the best examples of food chain poisoning is in Eskimos.  Pollutants become concentrated at the top of the food chain.  Mercury enters water sources from industrial discharges and is absorbed by bacteria, algae and other small sea life.  Fish eat the smaller sea life and seals and whales eat the fish.  Then Eskimos eat the whales and seals. Pollution has continued to increase since a study in 1970 found as much as 376 ppb of mercury in Eskimos.  The FDA considers over 2 ppb in water unacceptable and this is in their blood!

Tradition is another factor.  When people were colonizing America, they found that dried meat, cheese, rice, corn, sugar, wheat and canned foods lasted a long time so it helped them to reach their destinations.  However, we now live in a world with grocery stores in every direction and do not need to focus on preserved foods.  The older and more processed food is, the less nutritious it becomes, and it continues to degrade over time.  There was a TV show based on tribal people visiting America.  When they were invited to Thanksgiving dinner with a mid-western family, the host opened a can of yams and they asked what it was.  She said “try it.”  They took a piece and shared it.  Then they said the word for sweet potato in their language and asked each other “why are they eating dead food?”  You don’t need a degree in nutrition to understand the nutritional benefits of live food verses dead food if you are self-aware and pay attention to how you feel after eating.

There are also issues coming to light like the harmful chemicals released into food by cans when the food is acidic like tomatoes and the toxic chemicals released into food and drinks by many plastic containers.

If you understood that the small risks from eating the way average Americans do will definitely add up to create a life threatening disease later on, would you still eat that way?  If you knew that this illness will make your life miserable or kill you years before your potential, would you keep eating those foods?  Did you know that most of our modern illnesses in America are directly related to our diets?  If you knew that you had a 50/50 chance of dying by driving your car too fast around a corner, you would slow down.  Why do people continue to eat poorly when it leads to so many agonizing early deaths?

Why have people grown to expect and accept that old age will be unhealthful and painful?  The world is filled with examples of cultures like the Japanese who thrive from a diet of fresh fruits, vegetable and fish that has lead to the longest life expectancy on earth.  I saw a documentary about Okinawa where it's common to live over 100 years. It featured  a 90 year old man who fished in a wet suit off a small boat with a net.  He would dive in catch fish in his net, climb back into his boat dragging them aboard and then do it again until he had enough for his family of 60.  He didn't need to fish.  They could easily afford it.  He felt alive because he was still fishing.  A woman who was 103 was still dancing and bragging about her 78 year old boy toy.  They are great examples of the life you can live by eating healthfully.

When you go to a doctor do they treat your symptoms or the underlying illness?  When you have an illness and your doctor makes money from your visits, your prescriptions, your lab tests and your surgeries through a system of kickbacks, perks and fees, they are a business and you are their customer.  Does this system create a financial incentive to cover up symptoms rather than curing illness?  Isn’t this a conflict of interest?  Everyone knows a repeat customer is a business’ best friend.  If they cure the illness, you don’t need to come back as often.  If they treat symptoms, you have to keep going back frequently and they make more money.  This is a basic principle of  “for-profit” medicine. 

There will always be some doctors who are in it to care for people, but many people become doctors for the money these days, and many simply haven’t been educated about natural alternatives to health care because schools don’t focus on it if they teach it at all.  Today, a lot of funding for medical schools comes from big pharma and they don’t like natural medicine because you can’t patent it to become the exclusive profiteer from it.  It’s the nature of the business. The big conglomerates now own the food manufacturers and big pharma so they love it when you buy their foods and get sick so you can also buy their drugs.

Diabetes, heart disease, gout, ulcers, heartburn, diverticulitis, acne, obesity, headaches, sleep disorders, joint problems, lack of emotional control, lack of energy, and many other diseases including cancer are directly related to, enhanced by or caused by a bad diet.  If you could avoid the horrors of these illnesses and daily symptoms simply by changing your diet, would you do it?  Are you strong enough and responsible enough to do it?  I, like most people, thought I wasn’t able to make this change.  I was wrong, and I finally did it by deciding that my health was more important than a few minutes of indulgence every day.

Raw plant based diets have been shown to reverse these diseases without medication.  Raw organic foods have as much as a thousand times the nutritional value of  their corporate food mill counterparts (see chart below).  Mega farms feed low nutritional value fertilizers to their plants that simply focus on growing fast and big and beautiful.  Just like people who eat bad food, the plants are actually malnourished and therefore provide you with less nourishment. 


Does it make more sense to continue slowly committing suicide with nutritionally deficient foods and taking pills that may sooth symptoms, but cause serious side effects including death, or would you be better off eating in a way that cures the illnesses while permanently removing the symptoms and the only side effects are losing excess weight, gaining more energy, feeling younger and living longer?

Have you ever watched a loved one dying from these diseases?  It is not something I would wish on anyone.  I hope all of you reading this never have to experience them.  That’s why I am sharing this information with you.  I have nothing to gain other than the knowledge that I tried to help my fellow man by keeping them from following the same road that has doomed so many before us.  Think about how high our national healthcare costs have risen.  One way we can reduce that cost is preventative medicine.  Eating well is the foundation of prevention.

If you were making a big purchase like a new car or a home, you would do a cost-benefit analysis.  Why do most people avoid any cost benefit analysis of the food they eat?

You now have a choice that most people aren’t aware exists: continue living to eat, or learn to eat to live.

You don’t have to completely give up unhealthy foods, but keeping them as the focus of your diet is a long painful death sentence.  I focus on healthy foods at home, but occasionally allow myself a treat when out with friends or family or just want something.  At least 95% of what I eat is healthy now and most of it is alkaline foods. That's what I mean by focus.  It’s a choice.  A choice based on decades of observations and self-education.  I still experiment frequently.

I recently made waffles and was amazed how poorly I felt afterwards compared to juicing for breakfast.  Normally, I start my day with a pint of water that has one fresh squeezed lemon with pulp squeezed into it, nature's ultra-Gatorade.  It oxidizes my blood energizing my body and rehydrates me from the dehydration that occurs overnight.  After 30 years of coffee, I found that I get much better results with lemon water, followed by fresh juicing.  I love combinations like apple, carrot, pear.  I throw in a scoop of All One vitamin powder which also has a good dose of protein to balance the carbs for good blood sugar levels.  Food like the waffles can actually take so much energy to digest, they take away from the natural energy boost of sleeping.  Juicing amplifies it instead of detracting from it.

I eat at least one big salad every day.  I have a system that makes it easy even eating for one.  I cut up leafy vegetables like green lettuce, spinach and cabbage and throw them in a salad spinner filled with filtered water.  I spin them wet and let them sit a few minutes before drying them to rehydrate them so they last a couple days in a large plastic container.  I chop red bell peppers, carrots, and celery and put them in a plastic container so they can be scooped separately.  I sprout lentils myself (see below for instructions) and put the sprout in a container in the fridge, and pop open a can of organic kidney beans and organic garbanzo beans which share a container as well.  When I compose a salad, I add things that don't maintain well after chopping like tomatoes and avocado.  I make my own dressings from olive oil and balsamic vinegar adding lots of fresh garlic (as much as one head per bottle) and herbs.  Sometimes I add a tablespoon of Dijon mustard (and  honey sometimes) for a change of pace.  I don't buy dressings because most have sugar and bad fats in them.  Olive oil and avocado are good fats that can even help you lose weight and have other healthful properties.

I use virgin coconut oil (hydrogenated coconut oil is bad for you - processing destroys the good in it) for non-savory cooking like diced sweet potato hash browns with diced banana added at the last minute.  Virgin coconut oil is brain food and can help restore memory.  I make chocolate sauce with ground cocoa, virgin coconut oil and agave nectar, a non-glycemic sweetener.  Great with an occasional scoop of vanilla ice cream or a banana.  Dark chocolate with almond butter sweetened with agave nectar is yummy.  Quinoa, a marvelous whole grain with all of the essential amino acids can be made savory with garlic and any spice you want or make it plain and then mix in almond butter and agave nectar for a sweet cereal like experience.  Be creative and the old idea that eating healthy doesn't taste good will be just another urban legend.

I have taken responsibility for my health by looking at how food and medicine have effected it and by changing my behaviors. Are you strong enough to change your behavior to improve and lengthen your life?  Will you continue to follow lemmings off a cliff or start thinking about your food in this proactive way and make the changes you need to live healthfully?  It’s your choice. 

I made the choice and my rewards have been many: I feel great and no longer suffer from any of the digestive ailments that plagued me from bloating to heartburn; everyone I see says I look great and I see it to when I look in the mirror; I have tons more energy than I had when I was consuming sugar and caffeine every day and I no longer experience the energy roller-coaster that most people ride during the day including not getting tired at inappropriate times; that new energy also makes me want to exercise instead of finding excuses not to which further increases the benefits of good nutrition; I sleep much better; even though I have a broken back, I no longer experience constant pain from it that was being enhanced by caffeine and sugar; and best of all, I no longer have to worry about becoming crippled and disease ridden as I get older because the diet prevents most diseases and the degradation of my physical systems.  Life is too good now to ever consider going back to eating the way I was trained to eat.

A few additional recommendations based on my research and experience:

1) Whole soy beans are one of the best sources of protein and calcium.  However, processed soy products should be avoided.  They are high in estrogen so they are especially bad for men.  Use almond milk instead of soy milk.

2) I do not group fish with other meats because fish oil is very good for you.  Most people have heard about the benefits of Omega 3 fatty acids that are contained in fish.  Sushi is the best way to get maximum benefits from fish because cooking any food reduces the nutrients in it.  Fish oil supplements can be good, but some are high in toxins so know your sources well.

3) Wheat is absolutely the worst thing other than sugar for weight gain and disease so I would avoid it as much as possible.  If you can't bear the idea of no bread, you can often find gluten-free products as substitutions although they don't have the light fluffy texture you are used to.  I have gone without bread for months now which I couldn't have imagined doing before this started.  Sometimes you just have to take the plunge to improve life.  The health benefits of avoiding it far outweigh the taste.

4) All fats are not created equal.  Olive oil and virgin coconut oil are very good for you and help you lose weight.  The fats in Avocado work to your benefit as well.

5) Make sure to include high protein vegetables, legumes and grains like quinoa in your diet.  Having multiple protein sources is key to getting the variety our bodies need.  Soy beans, lentils (which are easy to sprout for use in salads raw), broccoli, spinach, almonds are all high in protein and calcium as well as other nutrients.

6) Use brown rice instead of white.  Brown Basmati rice is not tough or chewy like regular brown rice.  It's higher in nutrients and less processed.

7) Fresh juicing is the best energy drink you can have.  The energy drink industry pollutes your body with stress inducing chemicals that cause you to crash after the pick-me-up and damage your organs over time.  A good diet including fresh juicing gives you energy all day and has no negative side effects.  If you can't juice where you are, carry some fruit with you to eat.

8) Focus on RAW foods and you will maximize the health benefits and nutritional value of the food.  Raw vegetables, fruits, fish and nuts are the greatest gift you can give yourself.  When you eat raw, you generally don't need any supplements because the food is still loaded with nutrition.

9) Exercise!  Whatever exercise you are comfortable with doing.  Change your habits to include activity throughout the day.  Don't look for the closest parking spot.  Learn to walk and breath deeply.  If you undertake a RAW diet, you will find your improved energy level makes exercise easier an makes you lkess likely to look for excuses not to do it.

10) If you use salt, use Sea Salt and use it sparingly.

11) Avoid artificial sweeteners.  If you need a low cal sweetener, use pure Stevia extract .  Beware of lactose added versions.  A really healthy non-glycemic sweetener is agave nectar.  Raw honey has good properties including being an anti-bacterial, which is why it is good for a soar throat.

12) Learn to love garlic.  Garlic has amazing health properties including improving your cardiovascular system and should be consumed liberally every day.  It will even keep you from need bug spray as it is a natural deterrent to mosquitoes and other bugs.

13) If you eat meat, buy products that are not processed like ground meats which can contain "pink slime", an ammonia treated filler, and coloring to make it look fresh and keep away from anything involving hormones and other additives. Free range also allows animals to live in relative peace compared to the grotesque treatment in factory meat farms. 

14) Avoid farmed fish.  As well as not having the same flavor of wild fish due to the unnatural diets they are fed, we do not yet know the dangers associated with fish raised that way.  I have never tasted farmed Salmon that could hold a candle to wild salmon.  We do know the pollution from farms is hurting our oceans.  Farmed shellfish like oysters are raised in natural settings so they are not a problem.

15)  Make your own sprouts (requires a large bowl - pint sized for a half cup of lentils and a small holed colander for rinsing/draining).  I make lentil sprouts every week, and it's very easy.  I place a half cup of dry lentils in a large bowl and add 2-3 cups of filtered water.  After 8-12 hours, drain the lentils and rinse them thoroughly at least a couple times then drain and put back in the bowl for another 8-12 hours (no standing water in the bowl now - just the residual water from rinsing) then repeat the rinse procedure again.  Repeat rinse procedure until your sprouts are about an inch long, then you can transfer them to a sealed container and refrigerate them.  It usually takes 3 rinses for me, so 2 days to sprout them.   I add a handful to every salad.  Here's a link to making other types of sprouts as well as sprouting supplies.

"Research shows that sprouts are a veritable fountain of youth. Sprouts abound with antioxidants, they are full of protein, chlorophyll, vitamins, minerals and amino acids. Broccoli sprouts have been found to contain 50 times as much of the antioxidant sulfurophane as mature broccoli. Wheat Grass juice is the closest substance to hemoglobin, and is therefore a phenomenal blood purifier and liver de-toxifier. Sprouts contain enzymes, giving your body a much needed rest as they digest themselves - invigorating you while requiring no help from your body to process them. New research indicates that peanut sprouts reduce harmful cholesterol and that sunflower, buckwheat and grain sprouts dramatically improve the quality of life for diabetics. The list goes on and on."

A Few of the Many References Available on this Topic:

Saving America Via Nutrition

NEW BOOK: How corporations figured out the optimal amounts of sugar, salt and fat to make their food literally addictive.  SALT SUGAR FAT  How the Food Giants Hooked Us
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/03/18/books/salt-sugar-fat-by-michael-moss.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0

DOCUMENTARY: A highly regarded documentary about our food system and our relationship to food and medicine put together by doctors who have spent their lives fighting these illnesses: Forks Over Knives:  http://www.forksoverknives.com/

DOCUMENTARY: Two regular people who take responsibility for their health and find happiness and restored vitality in the process.  Fat, Sick and Nearly Dead!  http://www.fatsickandnearlydead.com/

Are you addicted to food?

Alkaline foods are what our bodies are natural adept at digesting.  A listing of Alkaline and Acidic foods:  http://thealkalinefoods.com/

Start your day with water and lemon for healthy energy!  Clean water and fresh squeezed lemon is one of the most well tested energy boosters around. 

The Challenge of Going Vegan

Vegetarian Living

Shattering The Meat Myth: Humans Are Natural Vegetarians  

Half price for All One vitamins online.

The Mayo Clinic's recommendations for hypertension start with a diet focused on plants: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/high-blood-pressure/DS00100/DSECTION=lifestyle-and-home-remedies 

Mayo Clinic's top cholesterol reducing foods: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/cholesterol/CL00002

Vegetables that are high in calcium:  http://www.fitday.com/fitness-articles/nutrition/healthy-eating/12-vegetables-high-in-calcium.html

High Protein foods listing:  http://www.healthaliciousness.com/articles/foods-highest-in-protein.php 

Supersize Me - the toxic effects of fast food - Full movie for free on Youtube

All red meat is bad for you, new study says 120,000 people in the study and the more you ate the more likely you would die of an eating related disease.

Study: One Sugary Drink Per Day Raises Risk of Heart Disease for Men by 20%

Tiny Proportion Of Americans Practice Seven Heart Healthy Habits

Background about the author: I am a seeker, a person who is constantly looking for truth and answers to life’s obstacles and mysteries.  Self-awareness is the key to changing ones life for the better and I have embraced it for 30 years.

I have studied the human condition from the molecular level to the societal level including the history of American medicine.  I have a strong background in all of the natural and social sciences with degrees in psychology and sociology. 

I firmly believe in sharing what I learn because knowledge is wasted when not shared, and we are all in this together, regardless of race, religion or politics.

I was raised to be a hypochondriac by a hypochondriac and have spent my adult life discovering ways not to be sick after realizing that you cannot fully enjoy life when you are sick.  I chose to stop being a hypochondriac and have become a person who does not fear illness because I prevent it through natural health care.  Before I took control of my life, I lost at least two months of every year to illness and spent most of my time dealing with allergies and symptoms created by my lifestyle.  Since changing, I have enjoyed many improvements in life: I haven’t needed a doctor in over a decade, I lose no more than a couple days a year to illness, and I am no longer plagued by allergies, symptoms, or fear of illness.

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Seeking Happiness

Happiness is usually misunderstood.  What it is and how to achieve it is probably one of the most disputed topics in history.  I believe that media often complicates the issue by giving people unrealistic goals towards finding happiness.  I have seen the full range of possibilities in the media, from the perfect families and lifestyles of early television like the Cleavers where happiness seemed inevitable, to the modern sitcom that portrays life as endless problems that you just have to live with.  Life is somewhere in between.

If you look for happiness in a place, you are likely to discover that your idea of another place is not what you imagined it would be and therefore, it does not make you happy in itself.  I have known many people who thought that moving was the way to cure their unhappiness, especially when a relationship ends.  I have never met anyone that found true happiness because of moving to a new place unless they discovered the key to happiness at the same time.  This does not mean that moving cannot improve your quality of life, but it is not a cure-all and in itself does not guarantee any level of happiness.  A new place can be very lonely if it is not filled with people who love you.

If you look for happiness in material things, you are bound to be disappointed.  Purchasing something you want does not guarantee happiness for several reasons.  Purchase gratification is short lived.  We often are persuaded by advertising that we want something and after we buy it, we don’t use it because we really didn’t want it, we just thought we did because advertisers are very skilled at creating desire.   Some people pursue wealth because they think it is where happiness presides, but the old saying that “the more you have, the more you need” tends to cause such continual stress that it actually prevents happiness.  Some people turn to food for happiness, but then they become fat and unhealthy which does not make anyone happy.  Material things cannot make you truly happy because happiness is spiritual, not material.

If you pursue happiness in another person, you will find that type of happiness tends to leave as quickly as it comes into your life because it is dependent on another person.  Even people who get along very well tend to have disagreements.  When we fall in love, our happiness is based on our tendency to only look at the good side of a person.  Therefore, we usually overreact to conflict and tear down all of the good in the relationship over time because our expectations of love are unrealistic.  Expectations are a poison that prevents happiness and peace of mind.  We cannot control other people.  We can only control our own thoughts and most people don’t even do that.

If you look for happiness in some perfect philosophy, you will likely be disappointed because perfection is a concept that is as misunderstood as happiness.  In most things in life, perfection is impossible unless you include imperfections in your definition of perfection which then means perfection isn’t perfect.  Therefore if you pursue absolute perfection, you are chasing your tail. 

I think this quote, which I could not find a source for, says more in one sentence than anything else you will learn in your lifetime about happiness:

Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.

If you cannot find happiness where you are in your life right now, how can you expect to find it anywhere else?  Happiness resides in our hearts.  A simple act like making ourselves smile makes us feel happier.  Doing something productive usually makes us feel happier.  Spending time with those who appreciate us, makes us feel happier.  Most people find helping others makes them feel happier, I know it makes me happy when I am able to help people who need it. 

Look in your heart and ask yourself “what makes me feel truly happy?”  Throw out the things that create conflict, are superficial, or might hurt others.  Throw out the things that numb you to the pain you have focused on in your life and replace them with the things that make you want to remember those moments forever.  Throw out the things that make you feel good without making you happy.  Take responsibility for your happiness by pursuing the things that truly make you happy.   Allow yourself to be happy no matter the circumstance and you will find yourself in a better world.

I have lived far more comfortably than I do now.  I have had wealth in my life.  I have had love in my life.  I have experienced the joy of parenting.  I have had much less worry and strife in my life.  However, I have never been closer to happiness than I am now by finding honesty in my self-evaluation and by accepting imperfection as part of life...

Peace of mind cannot be found without forgiveness.   Forgive your failures and learn from them.  Without self-forgiveness, we are trapped in the pain of our past. Without forgiveness of others, we are trapped in the pain of their mistakes.  The past is the past and cannot be changed no matter how hard we try.  The future is far more malleable.

Today is the first day of the rest of your life.” -    Charles Dederich, Sr.

Now go out and live life on your terms.  Be happy!

Good Journeys my friends! - Dave :)


© 2011 David Stein

Friday, May 13, 2011

Freedom of Speech and How It Can Be Improved

First, let me say that I strongly support freedom of speech and believe that it has to be absolute as far as someone being able to state their mind in public or in private.  There will always be voices like Glenn Beck’s  that are offensive to the majority of people, but we must allow their speech in order to protect speech for everyone.  However, the idea of freedom of speech has been abused by the misrepresentation of information and because of that, I am in favor of a labeling requirement.  My argument will span how free speech is misused in selling both political agendas and everyday products because they are both key to how we live our lives in the 21st century.  They directly effect how our country is being run and our quality of life.

The concept of freedom of speech includes the idea that everyone has the right speak their mind and  to listen to the opinions of their choosing no matter who is providing them.  It does not prevent that freedom simply by labeling the content accurately.  When we go to the store, something that is poisonous for human consumption has to be obviously labeled as poison so that the consumer knows that they are buying poison.  It doesn’t prevent someone from buying it.  It simply makes them aware of the danger. 

In modern media, social poison is being sold as news with no labeling requirements of any kind.  I simply believe that information should be labeled as to its basic nature for the benefit of the consumer.  Movies, television and games are rated to help protect children from seeing inappropriate media.  Would it be so bad for opinions to require a disclaimer that it is explicitly an opinion and that news must go back to the system where reporting required both sides of a story with verifiable facts in order to earn the label of news?  Would it be wrong for a lobbyist or employee of an industry to have to admit their financial ties to it while telling you to support their agenda?  When a commercial comes on the TV in support of a political agenda, isn’t the knowledge of who is paying for that message and why they are paying for it key to understanding the bias of the message so you can make a reasonable decision as to whether or not you should believe the message?  Would it be bad to always know who is paying for an ad when it is for an industry agenda instead of a specific product?

Do we want to live in a society where we have to pretend that news is an honest representation of fact?  A world where we can be told up is down and if we don’t go out of our way to verify it, we make fools of ourselves when we discuss issues with people who know the facts.  A world where we can be mislead into voting for issues and people who want to do things that are against the public welfare.  A world where public servants can lie to us to push the agenda of the special interests who are lining their pockets rather than pushing an agenda that benefits the people who voted for them.  A world where special interests can create fake public rage to try and popularize their unpopular agenda.  A world where truth in advertising is being replaced by tricks and illusions in order to sell products at any cost.

Let me show you a couple specific examples of what has been happening and how it effects our society and daily life.  The first will look at current political messaging and the second will address product messaging.

When someone tells you that lowering taxes on the rich creates jobs and that taking away tax breaks for oil companies will cost consumers more money, they are not basing those claims on any historical fact, they are basing their claims on an ideology which they have been encouraged to present by the special interests who profit from that agenda, yet they are allowed to portray their opinion as a realistic view of the facts with no representation of their sponsorship. 

They know that you fear job losses and increased prices.  They rely on your fear causing you to act irrationally in support of their greed based agenda.  Our economic history clearly shows that our economy prospered the most when the top earners and corporations had to pay more taxes than they do now.  From 1930 to 1980 when tax rates were at their highest levels for the rich and corporations, there was a steady increase in available jobs and a steady increase in the standard of living for average Americans.  They say that their current tax rate of 35% is 10% higher than the average American pays, but they don’t tell you that they already pay an average of 17%, 8% less than the average American through tax loopholes. 

They also scream about redistribution of wealth, but when they redistribute it upwards they claim it is for the good of society even though every shred of fact says they are wrong.  In the 1890s, the 1920s, and during the last 30 years, special interests pushed their agendas into place and destroyed our economy by creating a massive imbalance of wealth.  When the top 400 people own more wealth than the bottom half of the population, 155,000,000 people, and all of the people with wealth avoid paying taxes, how can you expect a balanced budget?  It is completely disingenuous to scream about balancing the budget while lowering taxes for the rich.  Another example of manufactured rage to get people to support the gutting of necessary social services.



Anyone who runs a business knows that you can cut expenses to help balance a budget, but without considering revenue in the equation, your business will fail.  When millionaire politicians who get the majority of their funding from corporate interests and other rich people say that new taxes for the rich “are off the table”, isn’t it obvious that they are NOT thinking of what is best for America, but rather what is best for their backers and themselves?  When Rush tells his audience that taxing the rich is wrong while personally saving millions of dollars per year on taxes, should you really trust him?  Wouldn’t it be nice to know who has contributed to a politician or sponsored a pundit when they make claims about an agenda?  Don’t we deserve to know who is pulling their strings?  If they are not doing anything wrong, then they should have nothing to hide.  Take a look at this graph and ask yourself if the policies they have pushed since 1980 have helped balance our budget.



Now take a look at the real value of stimulus types to our economy and ask yourself, “are tax cuts the best thing for the economy and are entitlements really bad for the economy?” 



When you give money to rich people, they accumulate it.  When you give money to average people, they spend it immediately on the things they need to live like mortgages, auto expenses, food and clothes which helps the economy.  They always preach supply and demand, but their tax policies do not promote demand so they actually hurt suppliers a.k.a. businesses, especially the small and medium businesses that provide 80% of American jobs.  Big businesses are multi-national and can find new customers in other countries where the middle classes are growing like ours used to do so they don’t care if they lose American customers.  They can squeeze every dime out of us and move on.  When profit is the ONLY incentive, people get left behind.

Now lets look at product marketing.  When the latest “corn sugar” ad states that our body cannot tell one form of sugar from another, the ad contains truth and falsehoods at the same time.  They know that there has to be enough truth to not be sued for an outright lie, but they also know they can twist your mind with gimmicks and imagery without being forced to admit it.  Whereas some forms of sugar fall into the same category, sweeteners are not all digested alike and some can cause immediate and long term health issues.  Recent studies show that our current epidemics of diabetes, heart disease and many other health issues are being caused at least in large part by our mass consumption of sugar.  Studies have shown that over 9 teaspoons of sugar a day for the average man is definitely bad for your health.  A single can of Coke has 10 teaspoons!  The average American now consumes 240 pounds of sugar a year and we wonder why we have a health care expense problem?!

They know health conscious people know that sugar is bad so they try to bring them back by saying that they have reformulated their soda so it is all natural now.  Natural is good, but only when the thing that is natural is good for you in the first place, but their objective is for you to forget that long enough to buy a soda.  If that doesn’t work, they tell you that people who recommend against drinking soda are “taking away your rights” when all they are doing is suggesting a healthier behavior.  When we try to tax soda to help pay for the increased health care costs that it is creating, they place ads that tell people it is unfair to increase costs for average families, yet it is no different than the tax on cigarettes that helps pay for the 400,000 people who die each year from smoking them.  We get really angry when terrorists kill 3,000 people.  Shouldn’t we get angrier when they kill 400,000 people a year and make 150,000,000 people sick from eating too much sugar?

We have made great strides in understanding the human psyche.  Like all information, this can be used for positive changes in society, but it can also be misused to manipulate people for the sake of profit.  In politics, it is used to get people to vote against their own best interests.  In advertising, it is used to get you to buy products that may have no real benefit to you or may actually hurt you like cigarettes and sugar.  They tap into your base desires and fears in order to manipulate you.  If you don’t consider the underlying reason for a message and perform a cost / benefit analysis, you basically become their puppet.  When you get sick from eating bad food, do they tell you not to eat it?  No, they offer you a remedy that they can also profit from selling to you.  If you listen to your body, it tells you when something is wrong. 

Sometimes there is a valid health problem, but most of the time, modern Americans create their own health problems by eating behaviors based completely on taste instead of health.  The irony is that eating well does not have to taste bad and makes you feel better all of the time, whereas eating unhealthful foods may give some immediate pleasure to your palate, but usually leaves you feeling bad and acting accordingly.  When you eat sugary foods, you experience an energy roller coaster because of the initial boost to blood sugar and then a sudden reduction of it, which often encourages you to eat more sugar to compensate for the crash! 

If you have ever crashed in the middle of the day, you know what I am talking about.  This can also occur from eating very fatty meals.  The fat enters your bloodstream and slows the blood flow preventing oxygen from reaching your cells which makes you feel tired.  When you eat healthy food, that doesn’t happen.  Also, when you get tired from eating bad food, you are far more prone to negative behavior because it tends to also make you irritable.  Ever snap at someone for no good reason when you are tired?  What you eat directly effects your quality of life, how you behave and how people view you.  Marketing that is not forced to warn you when a product in unhealthy contributes to a decreased quality of life.  If we forced honesty in advertising, the market would shift towards offering healthier products which would in turn create a better quality of life.  Is that such a bad idea?  Is it really taking away freedom when it is simply giving you more good choices? 

I want everyone to be able to enjoy free speech, but it is not truly free when we don’t know if they are giving facts or opinions and when we don’t know why they are speaking and who, if anyone, is paying them to speak. Free speech is an illusion when messaging is controlled, and we are not privy to who is controlling it or why.   Wouldn’t we all be better decision makers and have a higher quality of life if we really new who was behind the messages, why they were promoting those messages and what the potential dangers are if we buy their messaging?  Are you really free when your life is controlled by someone else’s concepts of how you should look, eat and vote?  I relish freedom.  I believe that you must take responsibility for your life including the information that you choose to believe to be truly free.  There is no greater freedom then knowing the truth and being strong enough to question life rather than blindly running through it.  Like the old saying goes, “The truth will set you free!”

Good journeys my friends!  -Dave S.

© 2011 David Stein

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

How We Define Ourselves and Politics

Democracy is based on the concept of collective bargaining, the idea that two sides of an issue can come to together to discuss compromises that can remove obstacles to resolving problems.  No one point-of-view has all of the answers so exchanging ideas gives us a better chance of finding reasonable resolutions to important issues.  Collective bargaining does not exist when one side says that we must do it "my way or no way".  Honest political negotiation cannot exist when politicians owe more to special interests than they do to their constituents.  The "Citizens United" case is not honest in name and did more to hurt our democracy than anything else that I have seen in my lifetime.  This case had nothing to do with citizens, it had everything to do with corporate power in Washington.  Our founders did not intend corporations to be treated as citizens or they would not have created two sets of laws, one with protections meant for individuals to preserve freedom for the people and one that was meant to keep corporate greed from destroying what they helped build.  We cannot have these enormously powerful institutions buying our representatives and expect to have a "government for the people by the people."

When I was young, there was genuine discussion between conservatives and liberals that often resulted in laws that moved our country forward.  Although some semblance of discussion still exists, the overriding behavior in congress and in the electorate is to be blindly partisan now.  Whereas Americans should be Americans first and Republicans and Democrats second, we rarely see this today.  Once regulations that kept anyone from having too much control of the media were removed, the media began to create political stereotypes that demonize the other side and do not hold true if you take the time to actually look.  Conservatives are not all gun toting war mongers and liberals are not all drugged out lazy hippies.  If you are a Republican, Democrats are not your enemy, and if you are a Democrat, Republicans are not your enemy.  Our mutual enemies are the forces that wish to replace our democracy with Plutocracy or Oligarchy.

These forces have existed throughout human history.  There always have been and always will be people who crave power and think their ideas are the best even when dis-proven because their egos cannot accept any semblance of failure.  This points to the fact that anyone who needs to be in control feels that way because of cracks in their self-esteem.  True self-confidence only exists in people who don't need to control or be controlled.  Real leaders don't need to keep subordinates constantly under their thumb.  Instead they encourage them to reach their potential so that they can add as much positive productivity as possible to every situation that they face.

When politicians act like they know best even when a vast majority of the electorate disagrees with them, they are no longer leading.  Leaders listen and seek compromise that moves the issue forward to try and resolve it for the common good.  No resolution will ever please everybody, but they can please the majority when those in power listen to the people and engage in thoughtful discussion about the issues.  One must always take into account the messaging around an issue as sometimes the messaging misleads people to support the wrong side of an issue, the side that ultimately works against their own welfare.  Most people are unaware how easily they can be conned into supporting a point-of-view that ultimately hurts them.  This is most often accomplished via fear.  Politicians know your fears are the key to motivating you.  The only way to stop being a puppet is to realize your own fears and not let them control your behaviors and your thoughts.  We are in an age where politicians are often "snake oil salesmen" trying to push a corporate agenda that is bad for the common man.  They make relentless claims that regulating business is bad for you.  The long term repetition of these claims works as a form of brain washing.  Even a lie feels like truth when it is repeated enough times.  Only you can make the effort to find truth as no one is going to do it for you.  To find truth, you must be honest with yourself and determine what beliefs that you have are based on verified fact and what you believe blindly based on your biases.  Once you know what you believe blindly, you must endeavor to find facts if you don't want to be someone's fool.  We must examine both sides of an issue honestly to find honest answers.  Extremists live at the beck and call of their puppet-masters.  If you don't want to be a puppet, then you should seek knowledge and rational compromise on issues and not support politicians who aren't working for the people.

This may be a defining moment for the United States.  Are we going to allow ourselves to continue returning to the very system that we hated so much that we had a revolution against it?  The original Tea Party had as much to do with the monopolistic control of commodities by large British corporations as it had to do with taxes.  We wanted control of our commodities.  We took it.  Now we are giving it away to big banks and big businesses that have only one loyalty, money and the people who control it.  If you can be honest with yourself about those who follow the politics of greed and work to replace them with real representation, we can remove the road blocks that keep us from fixing the real problems in America.  We need to remove the cancer that is corporate money in Washington by changing to publicly financed elections based on debates over a short period of time before an election.  If politicians are only accountable to us, then they are likely to start listening to us again.

When you are sick, you can focus on taking drugs that cover up your symptoms and stay sick, or you can work towards finding a cure for your illness and therefore permanently remove the symptoms.  Our Democracy is very ill.  We need to focus on a cure instead of attacking each other like we are the symptoms.

Long Live the American Dream!  -Dave S.
"You must be the change that you want to see in the world." -Gandhi

 © 2011 David Stein